But how will my daughter cope with lock-down…..

I don’t know how may blogs I will start like this…I guess until it’s not an issue anymore…. but I am struggling to write. Not due to lack of material. Just because I am struggling to calm my thoughts. So much has gone through my head over the past few weeks. I worry, no matter…

No child is born a bad’un

I’m not religious. I have my reasons. Saying that, when my mum was dying, I was on my knees in my bathroom asking God to save her. I wonder how many other people, who like me are not religious, have looked up to the sky’s and said a silent prayer over the past few weeks……..

I didn’t safeguard myself.

I’m here, sipping my Rum and coke (I never drink) wondering where to start. What part to start with. Like most people I think I have bee in shock. My worst nightmares becoming everyday life.  This…what we are living in…COVID-19…. I have been some traumatic stuff. Stuff of nightmares. And some of the things I…

When this is all over……

I’m going to see my son When this is all over I’m never going to complain about the school run again. Or moan about the morning argument’s over hair and tights, the smell of French toast and the mad rush to find that bloody shoe. I can’t wait to see my little girl run to…

Hey Jude…. unresolved trauma now we have time to think….

I can’t write. I have so much to say yet I can’t write. I can feel it coming back but I have been flooded with so many different feelings I don’t even know what to do with. Will I write any time soon? I don’t know. But today’s guest blogger may just get me going…

Thomas has COVID-19…..His Story

I’m struggling to wright at the moment. I’m struggling to do most things. But that’s another blog.  Today’s guest blog is a little bit closer to hoe than I would like. It makes all this more real. have a friend named Sharon Wills. Anyone who knows her will say exactly what I am saying now…the…

Mothers Day Cake….Made With Tears

I have wanted to write for days. I have had so many things I wanted to say but each day things got worse. I actually decided yesterday that I would be closing my blog down tomorrow. I just felt like it was all pointless to be fair. Like….who cares what I think or say when…

#IWD2020

International Women’s day is something I like to drink in. I like to read all the posts and see all the greatness. But I am me…which means I like to buck the trends. I just had a look at my post from international women’s day 2019. You can read it HERE. It’s about my mother,…

Is your relationship healthy? A checklist for girls and women

Today guest blogger is someone who I stand in awe of. She is a woman who fixes others crowns without saying a word, who fights the fight many are afraid to. I met Rachel properly at the FILIA conference where I not only discovered I was a feminist, I also discovered women who I never…

Unprofessional professionals

Unprofessional professionals I have been thinking about writing this blog for a while. But I keep thinking…no…. It’s just going to cause a rift. But I can’t hold it in anymore. Will it get me in trouble…? almost definitely….do I care….not even one tiny bit. Because I am sick of it. If you know me,…