Guest Blog- Samantha Trew – A letter to my 35 year old self

It’s guest blog time, and today’s guest blogger is a lady who most definitely was instrumental in the path I took with my own spiritual journey. I don’t believe in coincidences, and the past that took me to Sam was not a pleasant one. I reached out to her begging for help for my daughter…

An act of kindness in hounor of Matt Gee – #BeMoreMatt

A message from Matt’s mum: On Wednesday, 23rd October, it will be 6 months since Matt took his own life. To honor him, I would like everyone who loved him to do an act of kindness in his name. I spoke in his eulogy about being #BeMoreMatt he showed such care and compassion towards everyone…

Guest blog season – Do you have a story to tell…..

It’s Guest blog season, so I think now is a good time to explain why I do it and how you can be involved. Most of the things I create in life result from watching or witnessing something that I don’t like or think I can do better. My blogs and subsequent guest blogs are…

Out of the Shadows Birthday – CALL TO ACTION! WE NEED YOU

Out of the Shadows turns 7 this year! Can you believe it? We have achieved so much along the way, from training thousands of professionals to being part of the BBC documentary “Hidden Girls.” But seven years is a long time, and it’s time for change. We are talking about a new website, new training,…

#Bemorematt – Watching a mum say goodbye

“Addiction is not a choice that anybody makes; it’s not a moral failure. What it actually is: it’s a response to human suffering.” Mate Gabour I went to a funeral on Friday of a 32-year-old man. I avoid funerals at all costs, but there are times when you can’t stick your head in the sand,…

Uncovering Hidden Memories of Harmful Sexual Behaviour.

I had fantastic training with The AIM project this week, with the very epic Karen Martin. You can read more about The AIM Project and what they do here, but as an overview, The Aim Projectlooks at models, frameworks, and practice guidance for children and young people impacted by harmful sexual behavior (HSB). Aim stands…